Laury Thilleman may have been élue Miss France 2011 and have chained a magnificent professional careershe is human above all. At the microphone of Jessica Troisfontaine, she returned to her faults and in particular to his long and painful period of burnout which she went through in 2022. At the time, the young woman, just thirty years old, was working on one professional project and no longer knew where to turn. Fatigue and stress have accumulated, in addition toa romantic relationship that was no longer in good shape… In May, she therefore made the decision to separate from her husband, the cook Juan Arbelaez, with whom she had shared his life since the end of 2015. “I was in total suffocation in my life, in my relationship. I wasn’t aligned. I was running away from something, an unhappiness, that I was trying to fill by being the best at everything I created“, she explained firstly, just before evoking the reason for her determination: “I was grateful and I wanted to please lots of people but maybe I forgot myself in this matrix.“
Laury Thilleman couldn’t keep his head above water
Despite her desire to do well and to invest body and soul in everything she undertook, the one who now hosts the show Meet in unknown land ended up drowning. “This pace I got into was a bit inhumane. Exhaustion happens when you’re too passionate and, at some point, the pressure cooker exploded. I felt like my head was completely crushed on the asphalt. I no longer wanted anything and I was going through a separation at the same time†, she confided without mentioning her ex-husband’s first name. According to the words of the former beauty queen, their relationship was no longer as healthy as in the past… “I finally realized that for too long I had accepted the psychological abuse that had been inflicted on me. I had no visible bruises, that’s the treacherous side of psychological violence. The blows can’t be seen but you have lots of bruises in your heart and brain†, she then revealed with great courage.
Love again for Laury Thilleman?
Despite a great deal of relief, la rupture a tout de même été difficile à digérer et à surmonter. It must be said that the beauty and the cook spent seven long years together. Seven years doesn’t fade like that… To get better, Laury Thilleman took refuge at home in Brittany. “I was burned out, depressed, and water really was medicine. And surfing, to soothe, understand and calm my thoughts. I no longer knew who I was. So I fled to rebuild myself and heal†, she concluded with a smile. Today, Laury Thilleman is suspected of having found love again in the arms of comedian Paul Mirabel.
